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		<title>Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharlyne Ang</dc:creator>
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I have just finished reading Sarah Waters&#8217; &#8220;Tipping the Velvet&#8221;. Actually this has been long overdue since I started reading that i think late December. Let me give you a little background about the author and the story.
Sarah Waters is a known lesbian author born in Neyland, Pembrokeshire in 1966. &#8220;Tipping the Velvet&#8221; is actually [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have just finished reading <a href="http://lezzybooks.blogspot.com/2008/06/tipping-velvet-by-sarah-waters.html">Sarah Waters&#8217; &#8220;Tipping the Velvet&#8221;.</a> Actually this has been long overdue since I started reading that i think late December. Let me give you a little background about the author and the story.</p>
<p>Sarah Waters is a known lesbian author born in Neyland, Pembrokeshire in 1966. &#8220;Tipping the Velvet&#8221; is actually her first novel that she published in 1999. The story was inspired by her PhD thesis about lesbian historical fiction.**<span id="more-127"></span><br />
The story itself is based on the Victorian Era, specific location of the story are the music halls during that era. The main character in the story, Nan King ( an oyster cook from Whitstable) became infatuated with a male impersonator actress named Kitty. With her infatuation, she didn&#8217;t know that she will become physically attracted to this woman. She thought that she was just being fanatic about the art that Kitty is doing. She eventually becomes Kitty&#8217;s personal assistant and left Whitstable to be with Kitty during her performances. Nan King also has a hidden talent and became Kitty&#8217;s partner in their performances ( male impersonation). Their on-stage partnership suddenly became realistic, thus making Kitty as her first girlfriend. Kitty didn&#8217;t want to expose their relationship, Nan King realizes the &#8220;closet relationship&#8221;. After a while, Kitty left Nan to marry their manager and live a life as a &#8220;straight&#8221; person.</p>
<p>Nan King being devastated of her first lesbian experience, she lived a life as a &#8216;tom&#8217;. She left the music halls and lived in another place far from the music halls. She got attracted with a girl name Florence, working in the boarding house she&#8217;s living in. Nan became a prostitute ( for gay males) because they think she&#8217;s a boy. Nan King was picked up by Diane, a rich woman in her late 40&#8217;s and adventurous in sexual experimentations. Nan King then became her &#8216;boytoy&#8217; and made her live in her mansion. Nan King enjoyed the experimentation however she didn&#8217;t love this woman, she&#8217;s still in love with Kitty. She also became involved with Diane&#8217;s maid Zena.</p>
<p>She left Diane&#8217;s mansion and tried to look for Florence, the girl that she got attracted with before leaving for the mansion. She felt that there was something &#8216;hanging&#8217; between them. Now with no money, she found Florence. They started where they left off. Nan admitting her past to Florence.<br />
In a socialist event, all of Nan&#8217;s ex&#8217;s were in that particular place. Kitty talked to Nan, asking her to come back even though Kitty still married to Walter. Nan refused since she didn&#8217;t want to become the &#8216;third party&#8217;. Though Florence and Nan both have unfinished businesses with their ex&#8217;s, Nan still chose Florence over Kitty.</p>
<p><em><strong>My commentary:</strong></em><br />
This has a historical approach, makes you really imagine the music halls during the Victorian era. It seems that the author wants to explore lesbian visibility in history that has been left behind. The author showed the &#8216;exclusive&#8217; parties for women who love women that may be present at that time.</p>
<p>At the beginning of the story, readers will already realize it is a lesbian novel due to the yonic symbols used such as oysters etc&#8230; ( I guess I know what you mean lolz ;p ).It made me giggle a bit at first, since Nan is somewhat a &#8216;virgin&#8217; in this kind of feeling. It made me think of the first time I felt that feeling, going beyond friendship or fanaticism. I felt disappointed at Kitty being a closet lesbian, leaving Nan hanging. I actually became angry at the character of Kitty, especially the part when she was saying to Nan that she doesn&#8217;t want to be called a &#8216;tom&#8217;. Well what are you then? I totally understand closet relationships but between the two of them, Kitty still prefers not to be called a &#8216;tom&#8217;. That is called hypocrisy.</p>
<p>Actually, as I was reading through the course of the story it was suddenly becoming too graphic for me. The part when Nan was already involved with Diane. For me, it seems that the character was floating, on the rebound that&#8217;s why she agreed to be Diane&#8217;s &#8216;boytoy&#8217;. For the faint-hearted, I believe you might not like what you will be reading when you come to this part.<br />
In summary, the novel is liberating lesbians especially in its setting in the Victorian era. During that time, women are treated weak and does not have the right to enjoy sex. Well as for this novel, it showed that women can enjoy sex and be whoever they want to be. As you can see, the characters of Nan and Kitty as male impersonators, they have to be one so that they can be considered as &#8217;someone&#8217; in society; albeit shows patriarchy in that period.<br />
Aside from patriarchy theme, it also shows discrimination among lesbians. It could be shown in Kitty&#8217;s statements that she doesn&#8217;t want to be called as &#8216;tom&#8217; ( referring to a butch lesbian). We must admit that there is also discrimination even inside the circle that we revolve in.</p>
<p>** based on Sarah Waters&#8217;s official <a href="http://www.sarahwaters.com/book1.htm">website</a>.</p>
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		<title>Pagsusuri sa Pelikulang Rome and Juliet: Ang Pagtawid sa Kumbensyonal na Lesbiyana</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Dec 2006 09:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharlyne Ang</dc:creator>
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Rome and Juliet, sa mga hindi nakakaalam nito ay marahil ay sasabihin na may typo error na nangyari. Hindi po, hindi po nito itinutukoy ang Romeo and Juliet na isinulat ni William Shakespeare. Ito po ay isang Pelikulang Pilipinong nagsasalaysay sa pag-uulayaw ng dalawang babaeng nag-iibigan at paglaya ng sari-sariling kasarian. Sa titulo nito, naipakita [...]]]></description>
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Rome and Juliet, sa mga hindi nakakaalam nito ay marahil ay sasabihin na may typo error na nangyari. Hindi po, hindi po nito itinutukoy ang Romeo and Juliet na isinulat ni William Shakespeare. Ito po ay isang Pelikulang Pilipinong nagsasalaysay sa pag-uulayaw ng dalawang babaeng nag-iibigan at paglaya ng sari-sariling kasarian. Sa titulo nito, naipakita na kaagad ang pagbaklas sa heterosekswal na &#8216;taken for granted reality&#8217; nito nagpapatungkol sa bawal na pag-iibigan ng dalawang nilalang na heterosekswal. Kaya naman sa pelikulang ito, angkop na tawagin itong Rome and Juliet upang magpatungkol sa bawal na pag-iibigan ngunit ang pinagkaiba nga lamang nila kay Romeo at Juliet ay mas malalaking institusyon ng lipunan ang kalaban nina Rome at Juliet ( ang pamilya, ekonomiya, relihiyon, at marami pang iba) kaysa kina Romeo at Juliet na tila pang-personal na isyu lamang ang kanilang tinatalakay.Sa aking palagay naging epektibo ang paggamit ng titulong ito. Sisimulan ko muna sa iilang mga elemento nito at palalawigin sa pamamagitan ng mga isyu na nakapaloob o kaya naman ang mga naitulong nito sa pagpapalalim ng palikula. Ipagpaumanhin ninyo na hindi ako isang eksperto sa mga elementong ito ngunit ito lamang ay batay sa aking natutunan sa aking film 10 na klase sa ilalim ng pagtuturo ni Prop. Roland Tolentino at Art Stud 177 kay Prop. Eloi Hernandez.  Bagamat may 7 ( o mahigit pa ata) na mga elemento ng pelikula, hindi ko tatalakayin ang lahat ng ito dahil ang mga lumitaw lamang na nakatulong sa pagdevelop ng kwento ang tatalakayin ko. Ang uunahin ko munang elemento ay ang tunog. Nais kong bigyan ng komendasyon ang musikang ginamit dahil naging epektibo ito sa pagpapakita ng emosyon. Ang pinakapaborito ko marahil ay ang kanta na paulit-ulit na naging matingkad sa pelikula, ang kantang isinulat ni Raimund Marasigan ng bandang Sandwich ( na dating drummer ng Eraserheads). Hindi ko sigurado ang titulo nito marahil ay &#8220;Sasamahan kita&#8221; (?) ang titulo nito, yun lamang ang naiisip kong maaaring maging titulo nito. Naging matingkad ang paggamit nito noong sila&#8217;y nagiging magkalapit na. At pinatugtog ang kahabaan ng kanta sa kanilang &#8216;love scene&#8217; na lalong nagbigay ng buhay sa mga lyrics nito.Hindi ko maalala ang mga lyrics ngunit ang paulit ulit na sinasambit ng kantang ito ay &#8217;sasamahan kita&#8217;. Sa mga salitang ito umiikot ang pagsasama nina Rome and Juliet. Ganito marahil ipinahiwatig ng manunulat ng kanta ang relasyong lesbiyana. Sina Rome at Juliet ay nagsimula bilang magkaibigan hanggang sa nagkahulugan ng loob na mahigit pa sa pagkakaibigan. Gustong ipahiwatig nito na &#8220;Sasamahan kita. Kahit na anu pa man ang mangyari, nandito lang ako. Tayo man o hindi. Basta mahal kita. Seryoso ako. &#8221; Yon ang gustong sabihin ng kanta.Sa elemento naman ng pag-arte, naging epektibo sina Mylene Dizon at Andrea del Rosario sa pagganap ng dalawang &#8217;straight&#8217; na babae na sa kalaunan ay nagkaibigan. Kilala naman si Mylene Dizon sa kanyang background bilang isang babaeng &#8216;independent&#8217; mag-isip, liberal etc. Si Andrea del Rosario naman ay bagamat pa-seksi ang kaniyang imahe eh may natatagong konserbatibismo; maaaring nakahubog nito sa kanya ay ang kanyang pagiging mag-aaral ng isang katolikong paaralan. Sa karakter ng dalawang babaeng ito makikita ang dualismo na isinasakatawan ng babae. Ang babaeng palaban at ang babaeng &#8216;tradisyonal&#8217;. Unahin muna nating ang babaeng tinatawag na tradisyunal. Sabi nga na ang babae ay dapat sumunod na lamang sa lalake, pinapangarap lang sa buong mundo ay makasal at iyon na para bang yun lamang ang dapat abangan sa buong buhay niya, ang magkaroon ng mga anak, atpb. Alam niyo na iyon, marahil. Isang simbolo nito na mula sa pelikula ay ang pantali sa buhog na palaging ibinibigay sa kanya ng kanyang kasintahan na si Rafael Rosel. Ang panali na ito ay sumisimbolo ng pagsunod sa &#8216;norm&#8217;. SA kabilang banda, ang palaban naman na babae ay malamang kabaligtaran ng tradisyunal: nag-iisip ng kanyang sariling kapakanan, hindi nagpapa-ander sa mga lalake, praktikal, ginagamit ang isip hindi ang puso atbp. Isang simbolismong maaaring magpakita dito ay ang eksenang nakikipagtalik siya sa kaibigan niya na Australianong lalake (? hindi sigurado). Siya ang nasa ibabaw samantalang ang lalake ay nasa ilalim at pagkatapos makaraos ni Juliet ay iniwanan na lamang ito sa sofa.Bagamat nais ipakita ng pelikula ang dualismong ito, hindi mo parin maikakatuwa na nag-ooverlap din ang tradisyunal at ang palaban na katangian sa isang karakter o kahit sa tunay na buhay. Si Rome, sa una ay palaban na palaban ang ipinapakita ngunit, nagpakita din ng sensibilidad. Nakita ito sa pagiging matigas ni Rome sa pagpaparaya kay Juliet dahil alam niyang nakasira siya ng relasyon. Matigas siya sa lahat ng bagay, perfectionist ngunit pagdating kay Juliet ay lumalambot. Lumambot ito nang siya&#8217;y nagdesisyon na gamitin ang kanyang puso at sumama kay Juliet.  Si Juliet naman ay kahit na mukhang konserbatibo, may itinatago din palang pagiging palaban. Makikita naman sa pelikula na ayaw din ni Juliet na sumunod makikita ito sa simbolismo ng panali. Nagtatali lamang siya kapag kasama ang kanyang kasintahan kapag wala ay nilulugay niya lang ang kanyang buhok at lalu na kapag kasama niya si Rome talagang lugay lang ang kanyang buhok. Sumisimbolo ito ng kalayaan sa &#8216;norm&#8217; na itinatawag. Sa dalawang karakter pa lamang ng dalawang babaeng ito, kahit na dualismo ng pagiging babae ang nais ipakita, sa bandang huli magkakaroon parin ng pagkakatagpo sa gitna. Maaaring may pagkakataon na gusto mo lang maging palaban may pagkakataon din na gusto mo ding maging malambot. Nagbabago ang lahat. ( abangan ang susunod na kabanata&#8230;)</p>
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